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My life, my blog

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Ikea chair *, AMPM bureau, vase Ikea*, lampe Ikea* (for the rest, ask me in the comm, one sees too many things in this picture ^^)

A few weeks ago, when I spoke to disconnect j & rsquo; ve read that a lot of & rsquo; you had trouble doing so because of their blog and it m & rsquo; did think the big detox that I & rsquo; have made there 2 years old.

When I & rsquo; have opened this blog, I quickly became addicted. Normal, What could be more cool than to share his passions and ideas with lots of people connected everywhere. I constantly rafraîchissais my mail to see new comments and I thought of my blog h24. And c & rsquo; was cool because it forced me to always go further explore and therefore to get me out of my home for you to discover many things at the same time.

It has unfortunately also had a large negative effect : I was always trying to document my life and I was super anxious at the thought of missing a photo, a subject, a post for my blog. I became a real tyrant for my boyfriend at the time who had to constantly take my picture everywhere I went and I could not eat a meal without first to photograph every angle (and it either) (c & rsquo; s funny when I say that I realize that & rsquo; with instagram c & rsquo; s is a trend that & rsquo; spread a little beyond).

I see so many blogs today I guess the bottom : the couple who is angry because & rsquo; a photo shoot takes too long, the guy who is tired of having to always be available to take his girlfriend holiday photo… I know it all too well.

C & rsquo; is almost alienating because & rsquo; sometimes ends up doing things just to feed his blog, or one does not really saw the & rsquo; & rsquo moment because; it is too busy documenting everything.

J & rsquo; I understood that there 3 years when I left on a trip with him who now shares my life. He did not let it happen and it was difficult. I did not realize how j & rsquo; was tedious with my photos and especially with my anguish of missing something and I & rsquo; have been slow to understand the.

Today & rsquo; hui j & rsquo; everything comes out dissociate, especially when I travel, to devote a specific time to what will affect my blog, and live for the moment the remaining time. The blog has become that & rsquo; it should always have been : a small piece of my life, not a mini documentary of my life ;)

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59 "comments on"My life, my blog

  1. 17 September 2015 at 10:11

    While outright ! So now I write about a fashion blog, I bought a tripod to preserve my marriage :p my poor husband would have quickly tired I think

  2. 17 September 2015 at 10:23

    I have this “worry” when I'm on vacation, envy (and need not) any photograph like I was missionnée to fill a photo album.
    It is through the museums that I stopped to photograph all. Before when I pestais room supervisors forbade same pictures without flash. Now it is I who plague when some take any picture, the worst being the selfie works in the headlights, as if it brought something …. a connected life : feed the fantasy of a great life, to be followed, LIKE. And after ?

  3. 17 September 2015 at 10:31

    The tyranny of blogger :p
    But we lose spontaneity ;)

  4. 17 September 2015 at 10:41

    Sage décision ; a blog should never be just a small slice of ourselves.. I read yours for a very, very long time, and I love the direction it has taken for some time (ces… last two years, peut-être?)

    Perhaps it is only an impression, but I feel that as “pillar” fashion blogosphere, you've lived all ages, since the photos without head with London shopping unpacking or excess girly-cute, to maturity ; I really liked your tickets devoted to work, body, feminism.. I feel that you have managed to draw something quite fulfilling and living, just by taking the distance instead of throwing you in your headlong blog, and I find that very positive !

    That said, this is just a feeling, I hope I'm not missing the point ! ^^

    • 17 September 2015 at 10:51

      No, I think you just see, it's true that my blog will soon have 10 years old, in internet years imagine that's a lot when I started there was not even with us facebook !
      I actually saw pass all ages blogo, I feel like a grandmother fireside :D

      Thank you for your nice words anyway ;)

      • 17 September 2015 at 14:06

        You would think not to do an article ? I find it exciting to have your feedback and your little throwback to old articles, with your reactions, anecdotes and memories from 10 years old !
        Bises :)

        • 18 September 2015 at 11:33

          Ha ha yes it can be fun, I have so many pots on me on this blog (looks unlikely, atrocious hairstyles…)

  5. 17 September 2015 at 11:11

    I am so agree. Today, people can do anything / live without sharing it immediately (I almost want to say “taunt”) the whole earth. I do not have that reflex, which fact I probably never become influential on network… But too bad. The best, I take a picture trick (if I think) but I'll post it after, when the time in question is over and I will be quiet at home. I hope I never have the reflex to share everything all the time. otherwise, hallucinating a little at how some bloggers are exposed, or even lack of modesty. I think of a blogger who had filmed her birthday day, his awakening to his evening with his mates. I find it so personal…

  6. 17 September 2015 at 11:13

    This post reminds me of the movie “Julie et Julia” avec Meryl Streep. You may laugh at the folly of a blogger who tries to document the preparation of all recipes from the book of Julia Childs !

  7. 17 September 2015 at 11:28

    A ticket that is worth meditating ! Blogging is a reasonably learning every moment ;-)

  8. 17 September 2015 at 11:28

    It speaks to me much are you talking about !


  9. 17 September 2015 at 11:29

    Hey hey for grandmother fireside !
    I have just the opposite problem I confess… :D
    I have a blog because I think it's a super important communication tool in my profession stylist and creator but not particularly in my natural fiber { and it is also why I got into it 10 years after everyone :-) }
    I have my little blog but I have not necessarily spontanné communication reflex, I am sometimes a little wild animal, I'm not at all such phone with my friends and I have to force myself to go sometimes to the people (laziness or just that it's not necessarily my character) , and suddenly on the blog, it's been a publication rate some lame… :D
    But I know enjoy the moments, when I saw them and it, it's already a good point ! ;-)
    Hugs to you !

  10. 17 September 2015 at 11:32

    Rhoooo but how it speaks !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MERCi Elodie **

  11. 17 September 2015 at 11:35

    I do not want a fashion blog but a reading blog (since not long, attention, June-July ahem genre) but I still understand what you say. If my guy get royally plug for now, I must admit that I think about often (All the time), I'm afraid of drunk people when I share links on Facebook (but even if I like to write just for the act of writing), I love the idea that I read it. Du coup, I think about what I'll do next, I try to make items that will please the greatest number, I buy books (as if I bought enough like that before the blog) which may have impact, I find my ugly pictures but I do not take that the iphone, not afford to buy me good stuff and I did not mind pretty often put in scene for books.

    Bref, it takes me a long time and although I enjoy it, it is not far from becoming an anxiety sometimes :) (like any job you love, at the same time, non ?)

    Good day to everyone !

  12. 17 September 2015 at 11:36

    Not necessarily easy to make boxes and avoid leaving all sectors of life mix!
    It's true that keeping a blog takes up space…
    Glad you managed to compartmentalise!
    You needed to find your z'homme we must believe :) !

  13. 17 September 2015 at 11:36

    Rhoooo but how it's about me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MERCi Elodie **

  14. 17 September 2015 at 11:53

    A few years, with a site which I had great difficulty in "picking", particularly because it included a heading "News". It was good for anyone : or for me, nor my close (How many evenings canceled because I thought I should at all costs cover this or that event), nor for the site itself because in the end, Readers are also used to the ubiquity and some consider it a must.

    For my current blog, it is a "risk" that I anticipated from the beginning with a simple method : when I speak of a journey, instead of telling how the "roadmap", I target very specific times (a location, visit, etc). Like this, from the same weekend I can write several articles without being "in fashion blog" all the time and give the impression that I will document the slightest second.

    I also think ahead to my posts (my subject permits). It allows me to devote myself to writing on specific beaches and be "available" for the remaining time. I find it essential to have the right balance in order not to disgust myself blogging.

    Thank you for this fascinating article !

  15. Anissa F. Fischer
    17 September 2015 at 12:25

    100% I agree with you ! Sick of my dish to cool in a restaurant because I owe everything instagrammer ^^

  16. 17 September 2015 at 12:26

    Be aware disconnect, but not too much, if not, so much work to redo…It's very complicated to manage, especially as generally, it's homework, even more complicated to manage. Children, TV, the housework…. It should be simple, direct, efficient and attentive. Not easy, but you go in you very well!

  17. 17 September 2015 at 12:35

    Last Sunday I nearly had a fight with my boyfriend because he prennait my picture u little hard and that has made it does not right every time. Du coup, I decided not to force him to do anything: I take my pictures only (tripod, minuteurn etc) . C also a lea entrainment for days when it will not be there for a trip or other.

    Hugs from http://happy-pillz.com

  18. 17 September 2015 at 12:51

    These are questions I ask myself a lot right now, your bill is timely ! I think there is always the risk, with blog, spending model “je vis / I love / I read something -> I tell the” to “ok, I have to write an article -> I must do this or that activity for the material”. And strength, on se perd, we do not know if things we do because we want, or because we said it would make a nice content for the blog… You are much more advanced than me on that I feel, I am appreciative of your journey :)

  19. 17 September 2015 at 12:53

    thank you for this Behind the scenes I did not suspect… everything seems on some glossy Sir Blogs, some couples who are staging… :-)
    good continuation!

  20. 17 September 2015 at 12:57

    I want to say : What wisdom, gained and achieved over the years !

  21. 17 September 2015 at 13:41

    I quite agree. To be a blogger myself, I try to give myself limits, because I quickly preview, that our environment is not necessarily the same interest for the blog, that we.
    En tout cas, it's very well written!

  22. 17 September 2015 at 13:59

    Mince, it means that marriage in the small wooden ended,… You now seems to have put limits and this is the main !

  23. 17 September 2015 at 14:04

    Your article sounds very fair. I launched my blog there is little time, to share my discoveries with my family, my friends, give good addresses, de bons plans… I also fell addict to Instagram. But I realize that it's painful to put pressure to publish anything at any price. Since this summer, I try to publish only what I like, keep a beautiful sunset sun just for me, to savor. My guy I already thought to be (trop) often on my phone when I get home from work (because as it is a hobby for me, I can not go around and Insta blogo day).
    You have to let things not to share with everyone and keep to yourself, even if all this can actually find inspiration everywhere, such as your pretty decor !

  24. 17 September 2015 at 14:12

    And that's why it remains easy to read and no fuss even on important issues. It's not all your life and it is light…merci

  25. 17 September 2015 at 14:17

    Coucou !
    I still love it as much your pretty pictures, which often bring calm, lightness and light ! No need to know everything about you, have your eye on things, this is what makes it attaches to your blog !
    I'll contradict myself a little to send you a thought : learning that your marriage that you had revealed us some beautiful details and times, worked so well and probably has given us all want to get married, I got this twinge.
    But every slice of life in its history, anyway you have the serene air right now, reconnecting with yourself and this shines on our reading !

  26. 17 September 2015 at 14:21

    Finding the boundaries between pleasure and addiction… Not obvious in an ultra-connected world.
    I think we should always keep in mind that there are much worse things in life than missing a photo on Instagram, and that until the real fun is still there, all is well :-)
    (It's nice your office ♥ me who do not have the space to have one, I'm jealous ^^)

  27. 17 September 2015 at 14:43

    I completely agree with you… I have it “problem” with Instagram, always want to take the best photo and even from time to think and out, see a particular place just for posting after, I myself find it sometimes pathetic, on a une “pression” not I start pressure for all things. And it is true that when it thinks it's stupid-because we do not stop and say five minutes, “but it's stupid shit what I do, I must take this opportunity and that I may have my little pleasure for me and me alone, not for my followers”

    Merci pour cet article, its always good to see that we are not alone in these cases :)

  28. 17 September 2015 at 15:00

    Well I found a solution ! On my blog no pictures of us but my dog :-) at least it is not painful !
    Otherwise I draw (mal mais tan pis).

    But I was always a pain for photos (with or without a blog) I like to do it my way, try new things and I can easily spend 2 hours lying down to take a photo and try flower 40 different objectives and settings. But my man found his place, he turn in his corner and returned to see where I am occasionally ;-)
    It works quite well !

    Thank you for your blog, glittery moment of freshness that I love !

    hears http://www.unpeuplusloin.fr

  29. 17 September 2015 at 15:03

    super !

  30. 17 September 2015 at 15:44

    Your article is very interesting ! I am not for my blog, I like to enjoy the moment and that's what's most important. I see around me against by many people who strafed their plate with their phone it becomes ridiculous. And I miss my boyfriend with photos [especially since he did not do any of that to her carrer] mais on a trouvé un arrangement : a particular day of the week it's picture ! ^^

  31. 17 September 2015 at 15:48

    This summer on the beach I saw a girl who has only to take a photo or yelling at his children to pose next to their castle / water / towels on their… I thought they were going to finish shoveling ! Surely blogger…

    I liked your photos Marie Antoinette from the beginning but I think you made the right way by changing your blog. Your readers have evolved with you : initially they were looking for original looks and had a ridiculous budget for decoration, Today is our inner landscape by selling half our wardrobe ;-) It's nice to be thirty ^^

    • 17 September 2015 at 20:48

      Another idea what holidays :D

      Yes I must admit that today I give more attention to my inside and my clothes and it's good ^^

  32. 17 September 2015 at 17:39

    I must be terribly curious (and in addition to shortcuts 2 francs) but 2 Questions torment me and you will probably tell me that this is not about me and you will be right !! Is this addiction to the picture and your blog weighed in your break? (Is what we can really start a big blog and do not live in 110% with its top ?)
    You made a post about your life from vegetarian or almost, but at least your work environment, is the page 39 du catalogue IKEA, company employing the workforce at very low cost, then carrying it all by boat, therefore CO2 emissions; Product is only a basic chips or sawdust glued together, So many noxious emanation for you; being in a tax haven with a financial package (bad for our taxes). And I tell myself how to have convictions on animal welfare and himself and put aside everything else, in addition by their advertising? I am not perfect, proof I eat chicken (bio), and I still have two / three stuff whose provenance is questionable and manufacturing home but I try as much as possible to make my actions consistent with my speech. I probably sanctimonious air, however it is only questions. And then you wonder “how can we waste time putting such a comment?!” and then come the famous “Yes, but if we start like that, what do we wear as clothing?”I'm not there to make me pub (especially since I do not have a blog!!) and I am not a troll. I love your blog, your sincerity and spontaneity. Go Hajime !!

    • 17 September 2015 at 20:47

      Regarding your first question, I reassure you not my blog did not separate us it would be very sad if.

      And regarding my convictions… First of all I am not a vegetarian and I never said to be, I stopped for meat 9 month 2013 but I do not think I ever designated as vegetarian. I just try to buy what I eat more discriminating and taking things one after the other, in two years I think I have managed to make much progress on the subject.

      And yes, home I Ikea furniture, because I'm not wealthy and that contrary to food on the furniture there are not many alternatives.

      That fact can be a little girl who does things by halves. But doing things halfway is not bad and it's better than doing nothing at all. It is not necessary to be absolutely perfect for an approach has any value.

      Rome was not built in a day, I am on a path that will certainly lead me to question many other things : clothes, cosmetics (good that I'm already a little), their furniture, energy consumption… There are a lot of topics and I prefer to take them one by one.

      • 18 September 2015 at 18:29

        Hello to all 2! :-) I'm not sure if you will be alerted to this comment!

        Good already, I wanted to say that I am your blog for sooooo long even though I almost commented. And I still love, particularly in its evolution. For someone that makes you truly human and spontaneous and I like!

        I wanted to say 2 things :
        – this is a very big misconception that IKEA does all manufactured at low costs abroad. A very big part of the production is made in Europe ikea. For example almost all their cuisines are made in Italy. It takes a little step back on these multinationals and stop still type on them. Ikea has a real serious Sustainable Development policy.
        – and, oui, is made at a rate which can be, according to what is also accept. Each has its limits, his desires.

        Let me talk about this because this is something that really touches me. I did part of my studies on these topics and I just created my craft business where I make everything by hand in France. There is no single solution A, the issues are complex and we can not deny the expertise that exists elsewhere.

        Very good evening to all 2 :-)

  33. 17 September 2015 at 18:20

    Hi Eleonore.
    You’re so right with this comment. And I’m glad that you’re taking time to yourself and enjoyning your life and the way you share it on your blog. Is important to keep both things in the healthiest way possible.
    Bisou cherie.

  34. 17 September 2015 at 18:22

    I found the solution ! On my blog, I do not put photos of us but my dog (that he never rattle if a chunk to the key, I can not say the same for my man !), or I draw (bad but too bad).

    But it is not true that blog or website, I have always been very boring for photos, I like to take my time and I can spend two hours lying down test 12 000 objectives and settings for a flower. So my man go for a ride on his side and when he comes to pick me judge that I have enough (it starts to become good level also timing !)

    Thank you for your blog so refreshing, it gives me the feeling of drinking a sequined pink lemonade every time I come here :-)

    Hears http://www.unpeuplusloin.fr

    • 17 September 2015 at 20:38

      Oh but if you spend time to do it right, especially if you like it ! I know I spoke clearly separate things ;)

      • 18 September 2015 at 11:42

        It's true that having a hobby blog already allows more easily to separate things. When it becomes one of the means to earn a living while the pressure must be much stronger result !

        Hears http://www.unpeuplusloin.fr

  35. 17 September 2015 at 18:24

    pardon my comment was posted twice, all my excuses, far be it from me to troll ! :-( you can delete one of the two…

  36. 17 September 2015 at 19:44

    Your post still falls steeply. I was in full “creation” (through tutorials because I know nothing) My Blog ago 3 except that in the weeks building, I full of contradictions that happened: I'm having to tweak the layout but I'm a perfectionist so it gets obsessive and it takes over my other leisure I want to develop precisely to enrich my blog, I am convinced that the blog would be my engine to create / find / read more but I find it actually very pathetic, I really want to make a nice and beautiful thing with things to share at the same time do not want to expose myself at all, I want it to work and at the same time it remains confidential (if that person has access, like a diary…) to prevent the alienation and / or criticism.
    Bref, both say that it is bad beginning. D’ailleurs, suddenly, you know something (software or other kind) which allows to create a blog that would not thank you for internets? (Wholesale yes a modern diary!).

    En tous cas, your view is nice and felt in the atmosphere of your current tickets. But perhaps you will not be here today (on the professional plan, personal and financial) if you had not decided to make a mini-documentary for a long time…?

    • 17 September 2015 at 20:36

      Hé hé tu te poses beaucoup de questions… instead I want to tell you, Ligaments, launches a trick, it will never be truly perfect or exactly as you want, but it will change and you with.

      A tool to have a personal newspaper outside the internet sorry I do not know, but it sure does exist ^^

    • 18 September 2015 at 15:36

      J’utilise l’application Day One (for Mac, you can not synchronize with different means or ipad iphone versions). I find it really very well and if we really want it enables rapid sharing online. But if it remains private and accessible from anywhere along :)

  37. 17 September 2015 at 21:45

    OMG!!! This is so cute! Love it so much!!!


  38. 18 September 2015 at 7:41

    Merci pour ce billet ! He is great! Full of realism

  39. Delphine alliens
    18 September 2015 at 9:32

    Strongly agree!

  40. 18 September 2015 at 10:19

    You definitely are the most “sage” bloggers, it's very nice to find yourself in the natural which is lost (almost) everywhere else ! Good luck :-)

  41. 18 September 2015 at 17:31

    I imagine what it can be to spend all his time thinking about his blog and content.
    We, we solved the problem easily : Our travel blog is late in publishing its perpetuity tickets !
    Obviously from, it was not wanted, but to keep a blog 4 hands is not easy, especially when the other half working in research, meaning, All the time ;)
    The delay we accumulated in the publication of pictures (since this is his thing, it is he who takes the pictures and goes crazy over time), and therefore tickets. We must have 3 years behind our blog, and even if occasionally is updated with recent posts, there are still holes here and there.
    L & rsquo; benefit, is that relives moments instead of publishing them in the moment. For exemple, very soon I could post photos of our 1 years of marriage (it was just there 4 years old, hahaha)

    Enfin, I think we spend too much time connected in General, and you have to just take time just for themselves, for living things to funds. Moreover, we share this weekend hike in the mountains of Georgia (US) and it will make us a sacred break !

    Good weekend to all / any !

  42. 19 September 2015 at 12:56

    I think you've taken a very right direction…Wanting to be exposed to any cost is not that good and you have to enjoy things without document (I can not even, but sometimes I go without a phone for several days and it feels good).
    Having a brand of accessories, I got pull their socks by a marketing buddy because I showed personal things on social networks (and it has nothing to do with what I do…) So I'm learning little by little to separate it all…
    If you have seen the new collection for Habitat?So magnificent…
    Come on, good continuation!

  43. 20 September 2015 at 20:17

    Me following your blog for some time (or at least I've read many of your older articles :D) I think you have changed a lot and it's always a great pleasure to read you! You have a very nice way to write. And I love your photos!

    I am new on the blogosphere and I recently listed on Instagram, and I confess that it is quickly addictive. I want to share everything, show what I do. It's good but I quickly see the limits (genre, instagram go to the mat to 1H, What useless).

    Good luck anyway, and kisses!

  44. 22 September 2015 at 20:44

    I am also a grandmother (10 years in April next year for my blog) and I am a big fan of the course and the current tone of your blog. This spontaneity “found” after these questions… This is great to read (I am not unhappy for not having too distant from your RSS feed !). Good luck !

  45. 24 September 2015 at 22:46

    Good evening, it's funny, new in the blogosphere, I asked earlier this week in my blog if that man was a narcissistic ego trip or a real desire writing and support for my job? I am fascinated by all those bloggers who take pictures from every angle, scénarisent better life than their number, and instagram Vogue every moment of their day. I want to do the same… But I can not! I love to enjoy together so rare moments with us! As said above, it can be for AC I would not live my blog! Bonne continuation

  46. 12 October 2015 at 10:22

    It's clear, I realize that this post pretty exhilarating Articles, and pretty pictures. I realize that since I have my SLR that takes an important place I set simple limits. It does not become too big in my life: with darling I do not drag 10 minutes to take a photo that will certainly appeal to me. Heck it's okay if there's 2 weeks that there is nothing on the blog, I post more regularly on instagram. And when I have good things to say I will publish ! It's not the parts, then it's not my job !

    The whole life has become a reality and we must constantly take the stage, turn on the projector that you eat, that one carries, what we do! Not easy with vlogs, youtube and blogs we go too far sometimes… Sometimes living in an unreal world too, to take the stage to put his life on stage we ended up losing yourself !

    Continuing on this path Eleonore, I like the way you see things :)

  47. 15 October 2015 at 12:12

    Photos, the blog and my marriage, it's a little reverse history.
    My lover was a lot of pictures before, without having a blog or whatever ; pleasure to bring back memories of our trips. And, at the time (it makes 9 years we're together, so it begins dating ^^ ), I was doing very little, so I was expecting a little one that he finished.

    With the blog, I started to take more photos. But I never liked to stay 3 hours on the same place. I generally supports 2-3 Once the burst button, to prevent motion blur, and we go after. I do not want to see things in the small window of the camera, but I also want to bring back memories, to show this to our family and grandparents who do not travel, and share on the blog. So my SD card is full pictures, but it never takes over the experience and lived, what seems most important. :)

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