A view of look

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If there is a feature that has long been essential home, These are my blue eyes. When I was a kid it spoke to me while my eyes. CA and my small size. For me I was a girl who had the chance to have blue eyes, but the big flaw of not being at the same height as the other. I therefore recorded very early that this was what people were my first.

Then, ADO, blue eyes have somewhat disappeared, and it is always my small size that people seemed to save, CA and my leanness, as well as my lack of chest. I wasn't more than these three big physical defects : petite, maigre, flat as a bread Board. I was super self-conscious, I wore with heel pads in my shoes, a thick underwear under my jeans even the summer by 30 ° and cotton discs in my support gorges.

Then worms 18 years old, my small waist has ceased to be a problem (I finally understood that it was a benefit, report to the fact that people me under felt through it and that the boys felt strongest next to me). I also discovered that, to fill my absence of chest, nature me had with buttocks rather not bad, that I have time to discover because I focalisais to death on my breasts.

And then an adult I put again some time to completely take me (I had spoken to you here my perfect skin complex) but it eventually arrive. Someone also helped me to understand that I finally had the choice of the visual impression that I was going to leave at the other.

My old manager at l ' Oréal, that was a brilliant woman indeed gave me, at the time of my resignation, a Council which marked me : «Make a look that we do not forget.. J & rsquo; had taken this lightly, but it trotted me in the head, she had a crazy mane, colored glasses and lipstick orange impeccable whatever the & rsquo; s time of day & rsquo; it was even built this look that & rsquo; n & rsquo it; not forgotten.

Today I know that 90% people who see me for the first time hold in the first place my hair : redhead bangs. If I wanted to commit a crime, I would put a wig with a hairstyle that people would not forget, It's crazy like it's a detail that remains in the minds.

So yes I took the control, but there's always something that bothers me a little : my blue eyes and my small size seem to have disappeared from the landscape.

And it is strange when it is something that has helped you to understand who you were for others. I've had comments on my height to my 18-20 years and (not that miss me), This makes me all funny that this is really part of my identity. Same for my eyes blue which I dropped until the end of my teenage years because they were in my eyes the only asset I had.

It's funny this image that it is self through the eyes of others…

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54 "comments on"A view of look

  1. 29 February 2016 at 12:49

    I agree with you, It is time to take us even and sometimes the eyes of others does not really help.
    It's funny because I, It's my smile that people keep in memory. My drawing teacher always told me to keep, It was part of my personality and that as soon as it appeared ca became blase. I had never taken really aware until he speaks.

    I also understand you when you speak about the small size, but it annoys the large, we, You can dress the child RADIUS !! Thank you for this article that is good to read ! ♥

  2. 29 February 2016 at 12:53

    I understand very well what you mean. All time, I have been to my family “the big '. Whether I am or not, According to periods, impossible for them to change this. And they also had the conviction that I had beautiful hair. Off they are just curly, in a stiff family :) but they have nothing sublime !

    Bref, When I'm not big or curly, When I do look like a small (in size) Marianne james, I have the impression to be nobody !!! help ! I remember having do a good diet and have become pretty slim. I was happy, but in the evening, I had the feeling of no longer exist, even in my own eyes ! The image that people planning on us is very structuring, good and evil !

    • 29 February 2016 at 12:57

      I've read several stories of people who like you did a regime and who felt lost after, as if they had lost their personality with their kilos. We think not but it requires a huge work on oneself that it had not imagined.

  3. 29 February 2016 at 12:54

    Haaa complexes, that said, the stories of breasts.. Me is the opposite, I am small and I have a “fat” tits so my chest is most visible, it remembers me by Lachman at the big boobs, It is not necessarily more rewarding!

    • 29 February 2016 at 12:55

      Need you a hairstyle of madness then !

      • 29 February 2016 at 12:58

        What do you think when you say “madness” ? :) you have ideas look “forget it not ?”

  4. Workshop Unique feast
    29 February 2016 at 12:54

    j’ai l’impression qu’on a vécu le même parcours physique 😁😁😁
    Petite, yeux bleu, planche, fesse, rousse…

  5. Elora Monforte
    29 February 2016 at 13:08

    My comments are never displayed on your blog, they are mistaken for spam ? ‘-‘

    • Eleonore Bridge
      29 February 2016 at 13:59

      Ah can be… I have thousands of spam each week, suddenly your comments are can be lost in :/ What is your nickname when you post ?

    • Elora Monforte
      29 February 2016 at 14:03

      Arg is painful ca Yes ! It is Elora generally with the email address “Miss-olalekan” :)

    • Eleonore Bridge
      29 February 2016 at 18:09

      Je t’ai retrouvée, et normalement tu seras plus rangée dans la caseindésirables” ;)

    • Elora Monforte
      29 February 2016 at 18:15

      J’ai pas de mauvaises intentions je le jure !! haha. Merciii :)

      • 29 February 2016 at 21:21

        Dommage c’est pas comme ça que tu vas ouvrir la carte du maraudeur… “I swear I’m up to no good…”

  6. 29 February 2016 at 13:33

    I see what you mean, me my feature is the big tits ! the other day my husband has reviewed a college classmate that we had in common, it ask for new etc and Darling says that he's married with me. The guy, 20 years after him said ' ah yes Emilie, It was the only daughter of the college to have breasts, Emilie Grossein was called '. Fucking baby thank you guys ! The only thing he has learned from me is it !!! After I had a more approximate only look up to BTS, people should also remember, I have burned the retinas with my printed … have big tits, often it is the wound, but girls who are not envy you them when you you wish their flat bellies and their maxi necklines. We are never happy I think, but it is true that more one ages, more one loves. Finally it is the case. And it is through the eyes of others.

    • 29 February 2016 at 13:59

      Suddenly it is nice because it is a true pleasure to grow old :D

  7. 29 February 2016 at 13:39

    I was also often defined by my size, but I am rather large and thin, so my p'tit name for some is “great sausage”, “great jitter who laugh all the time”, the great... Suddenly I go over a little of the crowd and looking me anyway, I am gene not to sometimes add heels (not often is not comfortable), the leopard and the lipstick that slams.

  8. 29 February 2016 at 13:39

    I believe that the entourage refers us, for the most part, What we perceive of us - even, pride and including complexes. As if the others were a sort of mirror on which we transfer consciously and (most often) unconsciously our perception of ourselves… This is why we compare still others when we do not have confidence in us.

    It is also true that sometimes, There is a discrepancy (or even a denial) between the reality and the perception of others (what they want to see), as explained above Alix. This is valid for ourselves : which was not surprised/e and e/discouraged seeing move before a great mirror of the gym, away from the graceful image it had built? ;)

    To return to your pretty eyes, Elodie, It is true that you first notice your hair of fire (because out of the ordinary), But if there is the opportunity to see you closer, It is certain that we note your extraordinary blue eyes :)

  9. 29 February 2016 at 13:41

    It is true that one lives often only through the eyes of others. I will have 30 This year and I always have a crazy hard to accept me. I am small (1M55), redhead with green eyes. When I & rsquo; was little, They called me the big (I was a little penny) or the redhead. A teen my breasts became very generous. Suddenly we saw that it. I wore the collar rolled the summer so there me was complexed very early. Today I am thin, still small and always Rufous. It is the differentiating asset ;)

  10. 29 February 2016 at 13:41

    Team little boobs but cool bootie ;)

    And like you I am also small blue eyes, but at school I was more “the Breadboard Feb” (report to Acne :/ )

    Finally in growing God be praised we learn to live with our faults, Finally more precisely highlight our qualities to erase our faults !

    This is a trick I learned in makeup (because I am a makeup artist) rather than seek to camouflage the large button that is in the middle of front focus on the eye or mouth so people concentrate there on it rather than elsewhere !

    It's a shame that you notice more your blue eyes, especially because with your Red fringe is the winning combo to bring out everything !

    And yes it sometimes tends to want too live through the eyes of others rather than to look and to assume as it is… Either you understand it far too late (damn period of adolescence !)

    • 29 February 2016 at 13:55

      I believe that my eyes have changed a bit as, the color varies depending on the weather when I was little they were Blue Blue

  11. 29 February 2016 at 13:45

    I plussoie ! small breasts / Nice buttock (ex : Vanessa paradise, Charlotte gainsbourg…)
    agree to the voluntary element that will make fly. Still a super subject of personal development on your blog Eleonore, THX!

  12. 29 February 2016 at 13:47

    Such ahah, team ruse to fringe, and it is true that we always remember us with this hairstyle :-)

  13. 29 February 2016 at 13:48

    It is true that it is bizarre this story to create benchmarks depending on how others perceive us.
    This proves we 3 things :
    1 It is super influenced and dependent on the look and the approval of others (a crazy trick) the most important thing is what is really, feel good yourself, our qualities etc etc …
    2 It is super appearance-oriented, others notice the details that their obvious, and do not seek further, which is a shame. The same thing of course is done ! (me in 6th, 5th called me Mickey, I tanais my mother so it operates me ears, then in 4th, nothing, Nobody ever called me so and I never made op, I was also one of the smallest and I was very young, It has very quickly become assets also)
    2. Our appearance is fluctuating and also varies depending on the confidence in us that we are or not.
    Finally one can easily perceive our faults because it is also something he feels. But if we take the example of a round person who accepts and loves her curves, inevitably it will have confidence in it and others will also receive.
    Therefore self-confidence, whatever our appearance is a little key, because we can always transform its small physical defects into assets of charm :-)

    • 29 February 2016 at 13:53

      Is this is a bit like animals that feel when you have fear, others perceive our complexes if there, just no longer think itself so that people no longer see them as a problem !

  14. 29 February 2016 at 14:39

    Je me retrouve dans cet article

  15. 29 February 2016 at 15:02

    Me is my large, I always was bigger than everyone (giraffe Hello) and instead I was suffering a little in adolescence but now it is a pleasure, Okay I can not too wear heels but I like my greatness :)

  16. 29 February 2016 at 15:56

    Your former manager had good reason!

    Perso, This is my blonde bit. This is “my trademark”. Even if it does me know, on me recognizes it.
    One day, I've had enough and I teinds in black like the rest of my hair. Et bien, I myself more! I immediately did reverse.

    I think we should all have our “little trick” differentiates us from others. And not what others want us to believe (I've long been catalogued as the small big)

    • 29 February 2016 at 18:14

      Je crois qu’il y a pas mal de ça dans l’idée du tatouage, en lisant tout ça ça me donne envie d’en faire un autre ^^

  17. Navy stone
    29 February 2016 at 15:56

    Ah les fameux yeux bleusIci aussi je les considerais comme mon seul atout (je n’ai pas desoucis” for size), and growing they are passed to the door for my part! As red as they see well yet!

    But since the birth of my twins that were inherited from our eyes (blue eyes as Dad), We see them again! Kinda like a renaissance :).

    • Eleonore Bridge
      29 February 2016 at 18:11

      It is sure that on a child it shows so much more with their small heads ;)

  18. 29 February 2016 at 16:02

    Lipstick Sephora N ° 1 ???!!!! It is not !!!!

  19. 29 February 2016 at 16:08

    Well you're good luck because to 33 years old, people continue to make me comment on my small size and I tell me that I'm like this and it is just one of my characteristics, I think that this complex will never leave me….and that well because of the other and not because I only assume it…
    Beautiful day with your beautiful blue eyes.

    • 29 February 2016 at 18:13

      A painful that not change, I can be the opportunity to evolve in an environment somewhat less relou I dunno ^^

  20. Natalia Lazarevic
    29 February 2016 at 16:55

    oh ! I was to have blue eyes it was an obsession I even put blue mascara for years so we associate blue + MY eyes and it worked, the day where I delivered black everyone asked me if I didn't have clear eyes usually ahah :) the feint ! I felt exactly the same as you for years, my size difference and my leanness complexait me ( and in addition I have the hazelnut eyes ! ). but I like to be different finally. For a while it was to see that very little clothes me would that depressed me more than, I felt that I couldn't fully express my creativity, then I decided to go see a Retoucher and since I bring virtually all my clothes and especially combi ! magic ! I feel much better in my skin since.

  21. 29 February 2016 at 17:12

    Interesting this stuff to make a look that we forget not. For me it's the fringe, good it is not very original but I feel better with.
    And when I was in high school and college, It was my tits… To the point that even today, I don't wear a cleavage because I always feel bad for it. They are stupid these young people

    • 29 February 2016 at 18:07

      I read I don't know where it is “hiding” behind the fringes :D

  22. Del Italia
    29 February 2016 at 18:19

    J’adore le contraste de tes beaux yeux bleus avec cette couleur flamboyante de tes cheveux!! Belle belle belle 😊 (je ne poste jamais d’habitude, je suis passivement ton blog mais là je me devais de commenter!)

  23. lepetdeprincesse
    29 February 2016 at 20:03

    moi aussi j’étais la ptite maigre sans poitrine. Et je me cherche tjs pr en + born + paraître l’intello. Je v changer de look

  24. 1 March 2016 at 8:39

    C’est toujours compliqué de se construire, encore plus sous le regard des autresJ’ai mis tellement de temps à m’apprécier et m’accepter enfin. Je comprends ce que tu écris ^^
    En tout cas cette photo est vraiment magnifique. Tu as un regard félin ;-)

  25. 1 March 2016 at 11:51

    Oh ça me rappelle moi 😱 Sauf que moi c’était plutôt la Grande perche-Brune aux Cheveux et seins trop plats 🙋🏻 voilà maintenant je suis comme toi je m’assume 🙌 mais véritablement que depuis que j’ai écrit une chanson qui traite de ça justement ! Car c’est à ce moment là que j’ai décidé que les défauts étaient en fait ce qui faisait de moi quelqu’un d’unique 😋 Tu peux aller voir sur YouTube tu trouveras ma chanson Autobio (1er EP en cours d’enregistrement🎤), possible que tu te reconnaisse 🙈😘

  26. 1 March 2016 at 11:55

    I totally understand !
    J’ai vécu la même chose mais avec mon apparence générale d’ado : j’étais maigre, taciturn, frumpy and the meanest pointed me out often that I was ugly. My defense mechanism was quite aggressive and closed (message : Yes I am ugly, but dare not even say anything !). Then around the tray and after, I decided me cum to be ugly and I was much more open. Oddly, year after year in the twenties, I became pretty, then really sexy and “belle” (I still have trouble) (1m75, 60kg exactly the things for which it mocked me ado became strengths with the appearance of breast and hips :/) and when I started getting compliments about my physical appearance, I took a hyper poorly (pour moi, It was the return of teasing). Imagine the bewilderment of people facing the chick who gets annoyed when we complimented the ! lol
    I so identified as “ugly but intelligent” only now I have trouble with the fact that you can see me first as a pretty girl, then possibly as an intelligent woman. A 27 years old, I to am still not made me.

    • 1 March 2016 at 12:30

      I believe that more is assumed to be, one is pretty, but kind really. I know full of beautiful girls who are so complexed that that makes them a little transparent, and others may be less “in guns” who are so happy and well in their sneakers that that makes them really beautiful.

  27. 1 March 2016 at 14:35

    C’est drôle, I hear lots of girls who say have been complexed by their small size being young… I am mini and I've always been mini. But I found nothing to complain about. On the contrary! I love be small! For Carnival I brought back to the college disguised as a garden GNOME, It was start everyone ^^ however I complexed serious against my skin ravaged by acne! And even today, I wear the legacy and I'm still not totally comfortable with my scars… But it will not prevent us to live huh! (It is true that your eyes are beautiful!!)

  28. 1 March 2016 at 15:16

    It is hyper interesting as theory… But suddenly, It raises a question for girls like me : What is my signature ? I have nothing particular, Neither size-eyes-hair and has never made me remarks (or rather full but not a specially :)), So how I find my signature me ? :(

    • 1 March 2016 at 16:27

      This is a little known of “design of character” BD or drawing animated. For example accurate colors, a striking accessory, a hairstyle. For example, you see this stuff : https://fr.pinterest.com/pin/372461831661841445/ There are characters that it recognizes with few details. It can be a highlight, or a set of things ;)

  29. 1 March 2016 at 16:24

    Nothing to do, I find the large eyes and the same blue of your childhood…

  30. 1 March 2016 at 20:33

    The photo is sublime ! The ticket is very nice also but what photo…

  31. 1 March 2016 at 22:06

    Very nice ticket!
    Me one noticed me because I was (and still am) small with a huge chest. I have a long time to accept me. I bandais me chest, put me loose clothing.
    Maintenant, je m’assume. I want more to operate. I put that dresses, size empire. And I feel better!

  32. 2 March 2016 at 14:53

    Article très juste même si je suis totalement à l’opposé, je m’y retrouve entièrementJ’ai fait du volley-ball et du tennis de la primaire au lycée, j’avais déjà une certaine carrure de base mais avec ces sports, ce n’est pas allé en s’arrangeant ! Je suis assez grande (1M74) et j’ai donc, more, des épaules et des bras musclés. Je n’ai pas du tout vécu ce que tu racontes car dans la cour de récré j’étais plus grande et plus musclée que certains mecs mais du coup, ils se sontvengésen m’envoyant à longueur de journée des piques sur le fait que j’avais des épaules de rugbyman etc etc .. While I had long hair and a chest that correct and well I was unable to feel feminine ! Even today, to 27 years old, complex I compared my build and I envy girls like you, small and petty that there want to protect. It is dramatic I find as a woman should not feel less feminine or less pretty than another because of jealous vicious pre-pubescent teen Spades but it shows that is often defined itself based on what others have noticed in our… En tous cas, It is a real help to read you because you are really much wisdom in your words and comfort.

  33. Nude inspiration
    2 March 2016 at 23:05

    1,53 cm, yeux marrons de cochon et cheveux fin et filasse donc autant dire que je ne mise pas mon identité sur mes atouts visage!

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